Can you travel with kids after a separation?

Published by:
Mike Chelbet

Reviewed by:
Alistair Vigier
Last Modified: 2024-06-22
So you may ask, “Can you travel with kids after a separation??” There can be no right or wrong answer to the question. But why not?
Why wouldn’t you? Do you love to travel? The answer is yes. If you love creating fun memories, then yes, again. If you love your kids, then you have your answer: YES! Honestly, kids can make the best travel companions. They make you laugh, they want to have fun all the time, and they don’t believe in the impossible.
Some reservations you have about travelling with your kids
Separated parenting often has a lot of questions, and it’s a good idea to get legal advice before making big decisions. Whether separated or divorced, it’s important not to make rash decisions and get yourself in trouble.
The whole idea of travelling can be overwhelming for anyone. Plans need to be made, the budget considered, you will need to take time off work, and the list can go on and on. The best way to resolve this issue is to get your children involved. Discuss ideas about where you all would want to go. Hold the discussion multiple times and give it some time. Please have your children look up places they are interested in online. Have them help you determine how much it will cost to make the trip possible.
Planning Trips with Children Post-Divorce
Giving your child(ren) some leadership in the planning process will be beneficial for building their motivation and helping them take responsibility for the trip. What is too soon? Perhaps a few days or weeks after a separation is a little soon. However, don’t let your fears about gossip prevent you from having fun with your kids.
If you and your kids like to travel, then travel! The trip does not need to be immediate, but talk with your kids and plan the trip together. Travelling can be perfect for spending quality time alone with your children. After a separation, finding room in your budget may not be easy. But you don’t need to travel out of the country or plan an expensive trip.

Traveling Abroad with Children Post-Separation
If going out of state is challenging, there are great places to visit and explore locally. Talk to your kids. Be open with your children, letting them know how much you can contribute and having them help you figure out how much is needed to make the trip possible. Be creative in ways your kids can contribute to the trip, too!
Make a money jar or some visual display for your kids to see. Have your kids earn money for the trip by completing extra household chores that will alleviate some day-to-day tasks for you, or have them set up a lemonade stand, etc. Every time more money is earned for the trip, have your kids put the money in the jar or move the visual chart so they can see and feel the gratification of working hard toward a goal.
Vacationing with Kids Following a Separation
You may find yourself busy with work. Significant projects, business meetings, and deadlines are part of your work. Having a job to support your family would be best, so taking time off work is not an option. But you do need to rest! If you have the weekend or national holidays off, use this time for a short trip. Take advantage of any time you can and maximize the time to forget about work and have fun with your kids. It can be healthy to travel with kids after separation.
The separation or divorce may have taken your time away from your children. Travelling is an excellent opportunity to make time for you and your children. No work. No lawyers. Leave your anger and issues about your separation at home. Enjoy a trip together and be active with your kids. Explore a new place, be adventurous, try new foods or activities, and create new memories.
Navigating Travel with Kids Post-Split
Your parent-child relationship may be changing, and communication with your child may be challenging. Allow your child to have some input in the trip’s decision-making. Listen and share ideas and concerns, then troubleshoot the problems together. This will give your child some control of their life again and be a great morale booster.
Not to mention, sharing a new or first-time experience will bring you closer together. Travelling is an excellent experience for you and your kids. You can teach them to budget, problem-solve, organize, plan, be creative, have fun, and try new things. By allowing your child to be involved with the trip, they can learn to be responsible and experience the joy of accomplishing and reaching short-term goals.
Travelling is not for everyone. If you don’t like to travel, don’t feel the pressure to do it. If you do, then there are benefits to travelling with your kids, for both parents and the children. Wouldn’t you agree? Please note, if there are any custody issues regarding your child(ren), then please consult family lawyers before planning any trips.
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