Exploring Jim Treliving’s Insights: Decisions Book Review

Published by:
David Johnson

Reviewed by:
Alistair Vigier
Last Modified: 2023-06-22
Decisions by Jim Treliving is one of my favourite books. It was written as a business book, but it has a lot of family lessons as well. A lot of family law clients enjoy reading books. People tend to get philosophical when going through a divorce. They are hungry for information that helps them cope with their dark times.
This book review was written by Alistair Vigier, the CEO of ClearWay Law. Any opinions are his own and do not reflect the company.

Decisions by Jim Treliving
Today’s book review is Decisions by Jim Treliving. Jim is the CEO of Boston Pizza and is better known for his role on Dragons Den on CBC. Dragons Den doesn’t seem as popular as it uses to be so I strongly suggest watching seasons 1-5 for fun.
You can purchase the book on Amazon if you wish to read it.
Jim starts the book by sharing his story as a 27-year-old RCMP officer in Prince George BC. He talks about how he accidentally went to Boston Pizza after a police shift which started his life journey.
Jim’s book really is about, you guessed it, decisions. His road to becoming the CEO of Boston Pizza was filled with divorce, disagreement with his father, shareholder disputes, the death of a friend, and almost going bankrupt multiple times.
How to Be a Leader
“Be willing to make decisions. That’s the most important quality in a good leader.” -T. Boone Pickens
It is also important to be able to make decisions in divorce as well. It is easy to give up once your life has been hit hard by reality.
Jim offers this helpful piece of advice for how to know which decision is the right one.
“I make decisions about work with my heart, about money with my head, and about people with my gut.” -Jim Treliving
It comes as no surprise that financial difficulties are the main reason that people get divorced. Jim explains his father’s background moving to the tiny town of Fleming, Saskatchewan.
His father’s belief was that he would wait until he had enough money to pay for a house before buying one. It would be paid in all cash with no mortgage. His father said that a solid financial background was more important than love in a marriage. He believed that if you could not provide, you are not a man.
Coming From A Happy Family
Jim mentions many times throughout the book that his parents shared an excellent marriage. He says that both partners shared the same goals:
- Raising a family
- Being nice to each other and
- Giving back to the community.
His father even rejected a gift from Jim (dishwasher) because he did not want to change the routine of handwashing with his wife.
Decisions by Jim Treliving- Stress Breaks Or Bonds People
“Money creates momentum, not enthusiasm.” – Decisions by Jim Treliving
Jim writes that he is the kind of guy that if he doesn’t love what he is doing, he cannot do it for very long. Isn’t that true for most people?
Marriage might keep the momentum going in the relationship. It might seem like the logical next step after living together and getting a dog.
Is there still a spark after being together for many years? How are you meant to stay together for 50 years if there is nothing… real?
Jim shares a helpful list of how to become a leader. I think this list could be applied to someone going through a divorce.
Surround Yourself With People Who Want You to Succeed
This is a common reason that men want to get divorced. They might be trying to build a business and they do not think that their wife is being supportive of their ambitions. Perhaps the man meets someone younger or who is supportive of his vision. This situation plays out nicely in the movie “Gold.”
A Decision Isn’t an Action: It’s Just a Decision
Someone decides to move from Vancouver to Paris. Where do they live? Vancouver. They only made a decision, not an action.
If you are thinking about getting out of a bad relationship, that isn’t a decision either. Once you have committed to doing it, put together a game plan. You should have a step-by-step strategy. Then you need to turn that strategy into action.
There were no mentions that Jim went through litigation during his divorce. He does not talk much about marriage or divorce in the book. It sounds in the book that he went through an uncontested divorce.
In one of my favourite parts of the book, Jim is speaking with his father about a real estate deal. He tells his father that he sold the land for 4X what he paid for it. His father says that it didn’t sound like a good deal because he didn’t leave something on the table. Basically, his father called him greedy.
I wish people that went into divorce mediation would think in this way. The goal of a divorce should not be to get 100% of everything.
There are lots of other exciting parts in the book that I did not cover in this book review. Go out and get the book yourself and leave a comment about your thoughts.
Jim Treliving
Boston Pizza International started (in theory) in Penticton BC, in a beautiful small town.
Jim runs Boston Pizza International, which is now in multiple countries. He and his business partner George Melville have done well, and it seems sales and finance people make the best teams. Boston Pizza was one of the first restaurants to expand via franchising in the casual dining space. I don’t believe the Boston Pizza chain has expanded beyond North America yet.
He is also very involved in improving addiction and mental health at various events.
Author: Alistair Vigier is the CEO of ClearWay Law
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